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Selma Blair recalls doctor telling her to get a boyfriend while battling ‘unbearable’ MS pain

  2024-03-09 pagesixBernie Zilio31200
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Selma Blair, who was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2018, was once told by a doctor that finding a boyfriend could

Selma Blair recalls doctor telling her to get a boyfriend while battling ‘unbearable’ MS pain

Selma Blair, who was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2018, was once told by a doctor that finding a boyfriend could solve her “unbearable” pain and discomfort.

The actress recalled how even as a child she experienced chronic headaches and fevers, but she felt constantly dismissed by medical professionals, many of whom deemed her “dramatic.”

“It sounds like doctors made up all sorts of excuses,” “Meet the Press” moderator Kristen Welker said to the actress during a recent sit-down. “One doctor even told you, ‘Maybe you need a boyfriend.’ What was that like? Was it infuriating?”

“I just cried. I just cried. I had no capability to process. What am I supposed to do with this information?” Blair, 51, replied. “I knew the pain was real. I thought it was. But I did start to convince myself, ‘You’re overly sensitive. There’s nothing wrong with you. Get it together, you lazy, lazy whatever.'”

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Selma Blair recalled a doctor telling her to get a boyfriend while she was battling the “unbearable” pain and discomfort of MS. Meet The Press/NBC
Kristen Welker and Selma Blair
“I just cried. I just cried. I had no capability to process. What am I supposed to do with this information?” the actress said on “Meet the Press.” Meet The Press/NBC

The “Cruel Intentions” star felt many of her doctors were “just not seeing” her and that there was a “gender bias” at play.

“There would be a boy in my grade that would go in for the exact same chronic headache and fever, and he is in surgery and an MRI within the week,” she said. “I was never given an MRI even though I always had headaches and fever[s] and balance [issues] or my leg didn’t work, but they said, ‘Oh, she’s just dramatic.'”

Asked what she believes causes a gender bias in medicine, the “Legally Blonde” actress responded, “I think primarily, when I was young … they were all older male doctors who really probably did not know the intricacies of a girl and that everything does not need to be blamed on menstruation. Yes, that comes with its own bag of things to know about, but I think there’s just kind of a rift.”

Blair also noted that MS symptoms can look “different for everyone, and they can be disguised as emotional things.”

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Blair, who was diagnosed with the disease in 2018, spent the majority of her life searching for answers. Selmablair/Instagram
Selma Blair
She felt many of her doctors were “just not seeing” her and that there was a “gender bias” at play. GC Images

She explained, “I have prefrontal damage that would cause hysterical crying and laughing, and I just thought, ‘Wow, I’m just that wild one that wakes up in the middle of the night laughing hysterically or sobbing or in front of people.’ Just very moody.”

Though she was prescribed “really strong antidepressants from a really young age,” Blair said she turned to alcohol to cope with her “hell.”

“I drank because I felt so other,” she shared. “I just went in the basement, and I drank from a really young age. I was 7 from when it all kind of started, and I stayed drunk. I’d have a few years off and on, and I didn’t do it at work because I am my mother’s child, and I’m a functioning — you know, it’s really important to me — but I was miserable.”

She added that her “entire social life was quite thwarted” because “you just don’t learn things when you’re not in your body.”

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Though she was prescribed “really strong antidepressants from a really young age,” Blair said she turned to alcohol to cope with her “hell.” Getty Images for The Hollywood R
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The actress felt “relieved” when she finally received her diagnosis. Selma Blair/Instagram

Finally, at the age of 46, Blair received her MS diagnosis and felt as though a weight had been lifted.

“I was relieved I finally had something that could be understood and then treated,” she told Welker, adding that it took her “another year to realize a lot of [her] childhood symptoms were MS.”

Though Blair is in remission following extensive treatment, she still experiences symptoms of the unpredictable disease, which affects the central nervous system by disrupting the flow of information within the brain and between the brain and body.

(By/Bernie Zilio)
 
 
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