This is a boring question. Do you really care that I enjoy cooking, taking walks in the woods and going to plays ? We both know what we are looking for and at here.
Turn ons:
A smart man who is secure in himself. Who is dominant to me, but not pushy. A man who can coax me in to doing what he needs, but makes me think it was my idea
Turn offs:
Bad teeth. Egos bigger than their owner. Poor table manners. Lousy tippers. Anal sex (so far - I'm still thinking that one over)