I'm a total nerd, into science fiction and fantasy, some anime, comic books, etc.
Turn ons:
Watersports, impact play, oral worship, rimming, wax play, lingerie, nerdy folks, chocolate, exhibitionism, voyeurism, mild degradation and humiliation, and watching people cum all over themselves because of lil old me.
Turn offs:
Being treated as less than human, being slut shamed, public (unless everyone knows ahead of time), body shaming...well, you get the picture.