A Mans personality means a lot, how does he treat his parents/parent or the people around him? his family? For me personally, That's a no- Brainer.
Turn offs:
Bully's or Bullying! Looking down on others, We are all here for a reason, And we all bring something different to the table, Don't be a copy cat, Be excellent at what you do, And you will go far! No hate or hate speech or you will be block