Learning languages (Russian german French Japanese) creative writing, painting, roller skating, swimming, listening to music, liminal space photography, collecting oddities, resin crafting, window shopping, exploring/having outdoor adventures finding new things to do.
Turn ons:
Bondage (preferably dom but I’m versatile) orgies, threesomes, edging, fur suits, public sex, cum eating, theatrical, swinging, etc etc. if it’s engaging my senses and pushing boundaries then I like it and I would try 90% of most things out there.
Turn offs:
Super romantic emotional sex. Mundane sexuality. Unadventurous partners. Some bodily fluids. Anything not legal.