Video games, puzzles, being creative. I grow the hottest peppers around, and make the best salsa this side of the border
Turn ons:
Wearable sex toys, especially the WiFi controlled ones, foreplay, bedroom eyes, massages, watching my own home videos is probably one of my top five, Also, whatever may strike my fancy at any given time
Turn offs:
No toilet anything. People who are pushy and disrespectful, unsolicited dick pics, scam artists, and bots of any kind. Talking during sex. Well, me anyways. Never been a fan of my own voice.