Creative, crafty, a little nerdy, a little bookworm-y, reading, writing, ponderer.
Turn ons:
A man's moans while I pleasure him, watching & hearing a man pleasure himself, the ability to speak and write well, similar sense of humor. Dirty talk (think phone sex), Respectful control. Certain scents of a man ;)== Results from bdsmtest.org == 9
Turn offs:
Degrading, demeaning. More pain than pleasure. Anal. Any type of force (...except Star Wars' force lol)